We can have a down and dirty rock out. Or give the evening a longer classier theme. Mysterious and flirting, not knowing the outcome, perhaps only speaking with our eyes. Just a little light oral contact or touching. And let the night build and later let the flood gates open in extreme physicality when we get home. I've gone out with couples drinking/dancing and made a night of it. I am respectful of boundaries. Classy and kind. Gentle and submissive. Or dominating and nasty. I am naturally dominant. A mildly cuckold type night can be fun too. It's just for fun. Those are three of about 1,000 ideas. Routine sex is fine/fun too but that's most likely the reason you came to this site... to be more creative. I have good hygiene and am clean cut. Kind but not shy. I speak pretty directly. I am physical. Creative and fun.

My Ideal Person I only get together with nice people I can trust. No drama outside the bedroom.
But inside that's another story. Not a follower of all the traditional passive norms. Mystery can be fun if it is creative.

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