I have started to notice after looking thru the few profile here in the STL area that MOST all women that are attached or married are actual registering as one per when they should be registering as a couple because they want their husband to be included. While this is a fine idea and statement it does mean COUPLE not an individual. I am married so singles looking for their soul-mate please do not message me. If all you want is a quick lay then please leave me alone, I can get that at home. Things I like: walks in parks, art museum, canoeing, the Hill, intelligent people, and long love making session. Even tho I have a vasectomy we will still use protection for both our piece of mind. After talking it over with my wife she admits that she can not fully satisfy my needs. We love each other and there is no chance we will separate. I use a tablet quite a bit. It likes to change my words sometimes so if something seems mis-worded, it probably is.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a woman that is married or attached and in a similar situation at home as I am..... just not satisfying. Singles are fine too but I am very picky because the risk is so high.

I prefer women that are similar to my build but shorter, medium frame or smaller, average to skinny maybe a few extra if it's proportioned right. I am not a breast guy so anything works.

The perfect match for me is looking for marathon open minded encounters at least once a month to as often as we can make time for each other. She enjoys walk in parks, travel and a good conversation about something besides sports or what the latest model is wearing.

If you are open minded and here for fun rather than a life long soul mate feel free to contact me. If you have been a member for a while and know the ins and outs of this place. . . . I could use any advice you want to share.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Anything that we enjoy except what's off limits.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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