I'm 5 10” 160. lbs. extremely fit, well portioned and nice looking, folks tell me. I have all my hair. I have a high endurance. I run all the 10- K races around town. I am into a regular gym for daily work outs. I take care of myself and expect others to really take care of their hygiene. I have traveld all over the world including China and Europe. I am some what laid back with a large sense of humor and I am always telling jokes, although I am not really a party animal. I’m willing to let things go where they go. However with this said I’m usually very focused on getting what I want depending on what I've decided I want. It’s just something I have always expected of myself. I know for the most part, who I am and what I want out of life, and I'm driven to make things happen. But I also like to spoil woman with affection. And this is a two way street. Life is too short. Years ago, after I got out of the military, I became a nurse (LVN.) But career only lasted a few weeks and I went back to school. I greatly enjoyed the hygiene part of cleaning and massaging women patients all over. And it was part of the job. I didn't mind the medical part. However, I didn't enjoy touching and messaging the male patients the same way unless it was for a clearly medical rea. I found a different career, pronto. I'm looking for a 'LTR' with friendship. I am financially secure and have my mortgages paid off, completely. I learned from old western, as a , never give up you home to anyone. After having a 20 year marriage vaporize, I want a long term quality friend too besides good sex.

My Ideal Person Women who are emotionally secure and have a sense of humor.

A woman that speaks up, but without unjustified sass and nagging.

A real women, not just some stupid website that preys on woman and men. A woman with realistic expectations of a healthy guy. I'm not really looking for a one night stand. I am not looking for bad hygiene or emotional problem or complete jerk's. I am looking for women that I can enjoy their company with and have a good time with including good wine and a great meal at a nice place, beforehand.

I love a blond or dark haired vixen. I love women who take care of them selves, and also love to please their man. Makes me want to keep their interest as well.

I love to perform orally as a form of foreplay before moving on to penetration and can do it for hours. I've been know to have several orgasms within a sexual bouts, but I have to credit my partners for also for helping enable that to happen. I also love rimming if its with the right person.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:

Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Rimming, long duration intercourse, Role Playing, giving soft messages with nice lotions, beforehand.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, her bed or my bed

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Rimming, Role Playing, Food Play, I enjoy pleasuring her

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each, Our pleasure

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