I am a laid back, open and honest, carefree 32yo Hawaiian mixed father, recently widowed after 12 years of amazing adventure. still a sore heart But optimistic view of life, looking to chat get to know others and hopefully some fun. Really wanna stay Busy and if its something you may Be interested in please lmk. im willing to open up and share my life and story to those who are interested But really just seeing if there is someone i could talk to and get to knowBoth inside and outside of the Bedroom. Again Im recently widowed and do have a family i must care for By myself and if yall can’t understand my responsibilities at this time dont Bother. please respect the fact that Im not a couple anymore and dont wanna go through the hassle of changing everything just for this one site. If im not someone for you all the Best wishes.

My Ideal Person The ideal person would be someone who is like-minded as I am, willing to have conversations and connect on more than just the physical/sexual level. Although I know this is a site for sexual relations, that isnt all Im after here.Discreet is a must.