Looking for that woman that gets the notion that this isn't a vanilla site and I'm not looking for the "girlfriend experience". I'm a poly adult male, with no need for a princess or a lady. I seek friends between the age of 36 and 58 to socialize with, befriend, and enjoy sensual (and not just sexual) good times with. I have other interests but chemistry and sensuality are first and foremost when it comes to a potential union. I like adult, mature women...which implies females who are smart and sexy and have their shit together. If you're looking to be paid or have a list of things men should do for you, sorry...try Colfax at 3am. Or try a white guy....either way, you're definitely in the wrong place....lol This site is meant to be a place for fun liberated adults to meet...not for you to get your rent paid.... I'm just sayin'.......;)