What do women want from guys on AFF?  

DarkMindDeepSoul 35M  
31 posts
2/14/2018 11:10 am
What do women want from guys on AFF?

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DarkMindDeepSoul 35M  
25 posts
2/14/2018 11:13 am

If you want to comment below, I welcome your feedback. I only ask that you try and keep it positive.

Trashing me for asking these questions, or for my own likes, is just going to make you look bitter and small. I wrote this for the very reason that I do try and work on improving myself, and constructive criticism can help you grow as a person.

And we should all be trying to do that.

HasteBeatsWaltz 61F  
1274 posts
2/14/2018 1:05 pm

Can't speak for other women of course. Myself if he is / does any of the following I am not interested. Younger then me by a few years, attached in any way, has any kind of naked pictures sends a nasty message, brags. There is something else that is a must. A lot hide it for whatever reason. Their right but it dont mention it in the first message I am not interested. My profile is clear what i want. Only that so ig hide it dont expect me to answer. Profile doesn't need a lot written. Doesn't have to have a picture in his profile. We can exchange pictures later. I don't expect a model/hot man.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.

TicklePlease 50F  
10888 posts
2/14/2018 2:32 pm

I'm sorry... what was the question again?

kidding... kidding.

Personally, and I can't speak for any other woman or man, what I'm looking for (here when I actually AM looking) is pretty simple. Regular (2-3x month) sex with an attractive (to me), available man who I also enjoy spending a few hours a month outside the playpen and one that maintains regular, interesting conversation via text or email on a daily to every-other-day basis. Who shows interest in me, not just desires my interest in him. Now finding the first few words is easy. Finding an attractive (mentally, physically and emotionally) man who can communicate authentically and whose personality falls somewhere between slightly shy and full-of-himself is practically impossible here. Plus there's a vibe... that lizard brain thing. Sometimes a guy has all the right qualities but if that part of my head is saying nope, I move on. You know who's charming and perfect too? Stalkers and serial killers at first.

But I have to ask... are you REALLY wondering what women want or are ya just feeling a little cunty today? Because I totally understand cunty! {=}

DarkMindDeepSoul replies on 2/14/2018 5:01 pm:
Ha, I totally get cunty. And yeah, us dudes can be it as well at times. I mean...maybe a small tinge, if I'be being honest?

But...I have wanted to write that post for a long long long time. Maybe today was just the day...

WhisperyAgain 56F  
32 posts
2/14/2018 6:15 pm

Ignore comments from Heathen, we’ve been trying to get him banned for promoting violence against women.

I don’t like filtered pics.
You do come off as arrogant
Your profile is a lot to read
I live in a blue collar area, also so that may be your issue.

Good luck!

DarkMindDeepSoul replies on 2/14/2018 8:21 pm:
Hey, thank you for your candor!

lyavu 45F  
1038 posts
2/14/2018 11:15 pm

To be classy and respectful. Most guys forget all conversations u have . How enticing . So how do u get to know someome or develop interest

smartasswoman 60F  
28170 posts
2/14/2018 11:30 pm

I've been "just here to blog" for many years. I was looking for something along the lines of what TicklePlease describes and it just wasn't materializing, so I took myself off the market here. I do have a long distance FWB who I initially got to know because we read and commented on each others' blogs. His blog posts were, and are, funny and original. So yeah, I guess one thing that attracts me is someone with an original mind.

I couldn't care less about a six pack - although I do respect athletic dedication, I suspect it would just give me an inferiority complex.

We also are big on humility here in the Midwest, so I prefer a guy who's humorously self-deprecating to one who's, um, "confident"/arrogant.

SweetThing1117 49F  
15 posts
2/15/2018 11:23 pm

Mm, mm, mm. I happen to like confident, and I understand that cocky / arrogant is sometimes a misread on the personality.
When I was younger (and brand new to this site).. I was only drawn to the Brad Pitt-types with washboard abs and younger than 27. Nowadays, I am more interested in how a man's mind ticks.. what is his passion.. what makes him purr.. and is he in a rush for sex or willing to take his time in getting to explore my mind first?

Yes, I am aware this is a sex site, however.. for me the approach is everything.

DarkMindDeepSoul replies on 2/17/2018 8:10 am:
So, a Brad Pitt intellectual- that would be hot as fuck?

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